Meet Annoula
Czesc that’s Hello in Polish. I’m Annoula, A little
over a year ago I left a job I loved to live the dream in Warsaw, Poland.
It was a wonderful opportunity for my husband, whom I will call
Nash and our 3 year old daughter, whom I will call, Girly. I now realize
it was a minute of working mother fatigue that made me say “yes” to moving.
It is only a two year commitment. No big deal…right?
Everyone was excited for us, we would get to live in Europe, I would have more
time with Girly and we would travel. I had visions of finding my inner artist
and/or writer. I would be the most amazing wife and mother. I went
to http://pinterest.com/ and
created board after board of art projects to do with Girly, recipes to try,
craft ideas, workouts, places I wanted to go and hell I even pinned how to
homeschool your child.
A year into this “adventure” and all I have to say is WTF
were we thinking? Yes, I get to spend more time with Girly, we have
traveled to six countries and we do live in Europe. However,
I definitely underestimated a few things; it’s hard to leave your
family and friends, going from working mom to stay at home mom is not easy and
finding your way in a different country is a daily challenge.
As you can guess, I do not home school Girly she now goes to
a Polish/English school and I can’t find most of the ingredients for the
recipes or the supplies for the crafts. My adjustment to not working,
coffee mornings, wives lunches and wine socials has made me even more bat shit
crazy.
Seven months ago when we met Mandy and her husband at a wine
social I felt like I had found my soul sister. (Insert music here) She
understood and she got it. There had to be more! So after a few
drinks at a Spa Girls Night Out our friend FunnySuz suggested I write a blog
called the bored housewife and here we are two bored housewives.
I hope your enjoy our blog. We will write often about
our transition from spoiled Americans to expat wives. Please write us
back…you are our last lifeline.
Meet Mandy
It was about a year and a half ago when I got the
call.
My husband, Ricky-Bobby, was at a race in Los Angeles with
our eleven year old son, Manly. While they were sitting in “Carmaggedon”
Ricky’s phone rang. His boss called to see if he was ready; ready for the
“opportunity of a lifetime”?!
I should preface that years before Ricky has always been
asked if he would like to have a stint overseas. He of course would mark
yes, having grown up in Europe he knows many languages and thought “maybe” one
day he would want to return to Europe.
Now for my phone call….
When I answered the phone Ricky said he had big news! He was
offered a promotion and the job was in Prague, Czech Republic!! How exciting
and scary!!
After talking it over - we decided to go for it. This
would be a great chance for Manly to see the world where his father grew up. I
was also about to graduate college (yeah! I know…) and the timing seemed
perfect. So we said sure, why not! Once we agreed, the plans changed, “Oh
sorry but instead of Prague, you are heading to Warsaw, Poland”! We thought…
well one and the same.
When we arrived in Warsaw we were full of excitement and
wonderment! (yeah! that’s a word) Our “honeymoon” of sightseeing and finding
our way around town was short. It went downhill fast after that! The cold
Polish winter set in and the worst sickness of all… Homesickness!
We never thought about everything that we would miss when we
moved, we just kept thinking of the fun adventure we would have. I had
many opportunities to go out and meet new people, but I just wanted to stay at
home and mope! Until a fun evening out when I had a chance to meet my “expat
sista”! Once I met Annoula, I thought I had finally found someone that
gets what I’m going through!
And so our stories begin….
love it
ReplyDeleteU 2 seem like some pretty cool chicks !
ReplyDeleteHey Girls, I'm glad I found you! I can't believe they did a bait and switch on you, Mandy. Warsaw is nothing like Prague. Sigh.
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